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  • #24221
    DarkSlide
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    Most nights are quite busy with lots of different singles and couples. A lot of diversity as well.

    Let the staff know its your first time and they will show you round and let you know where everything is.

    The gate to the alleyway is open on club nights 😁

    #22011
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    Hi, the site has a good Q and A to check put that will give you some basic information as to what to expect.

    The dress downstairs is normally at the.staet of the night smart casual and often ends up a lot less.

    Upstairs is dress down so most guys wear a towel, boxer shorts or nothing at all.

    If you let the staff know when you arrive that it’s your first time they will give you the tour and show you where everything is and what to expect and answer any questions you may have x

    #20104
    DarkSlide
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    Mostly tied up at the moment πŸ˜…

    #15303
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    Welcome to the site, there will be some good nights on in December so you will have a really good time 😁

    #15231
    DarkSlide
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    Let them know when you arrive that its your first time and someone will give you a tour and explain where everything is. :good:

    #14027
    DarkSlide
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    Yeah its not a criticism of the club, the spam is just annoying and sits around for weeks haha glad it’s in hand and keep up the good work B-)

    #12839
    DarkSlide
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    Hey welcome to the club play site B-)

    #12311
    DarkSlide
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    Everyone is welcome, there is also a dedicated t girl changing room available 😁

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 4 months ago by DarkSlide.
    #12139
    DarkSlide
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    You are welcome :good:

    #12137
    DarkSlide
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    Hey, welcome to the forums, we go to the club when we can, so we can give you some insights 😁

    The club q and a is a good read and will give you some of the basics. Let the staff know you are new when you arrive and they will show you around and give you a quick tour and explain where everything is.

    The club is very busy and is split in to upstairs and downstairs, upstairs is dress down so most guys wear a towel and the ladies wear either lingerie or their towel. Downstairs / bar you can wear what you like so there is no pressure.

    There are several different play rooms / areas where you will see different play going, there is a couples room and glory hole’s and lots of things inbetween.

    No always means no, so as you get different attention through the night if you are not wanting to play a polite no should be enough to let that person know. On the other hand a polite yes can lead to a lot of fun πŸ˜…

    There are a good mix of all different ages, colours, creeds and genders. Single females can be a lot harder to find however as they tend to be in lower numbers than couples / single men.

    You are best as a couple going with an idea of what you would both like out of the night. Then relaxing and seeing where the night takes you.

    If you would like any more info please let us know or drop a message to the staff or owners 😁

    #12084
    DarkSlide
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    You’re welcome have a great night 😁

    #12082
    DarkSlide
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    We are not staff just people that go to the club so dont need to let us know 😁. As far as visiting the club you need to put your name on the guest list before you go as you are a single male so will need to check it’s ok to go down as they control the numbers, the staff on the door will be able to sort out your look around 😁

    It’s also worth checking out the club q&a too 😁

    #12080
    DarkSlide
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    Welcome to the forum and let them know if it’s your first time when you arrive and the staff will show you round and let you know where everything is 😁

    #12059
    DarkSlide
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    Hello and welcome to club play and the forum 😁 B-)

    #11999
    DarkSlide
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    You are welcome and Yes, naked / underwear, some men wear boxers or just a towel.

    Yes most people at the start of the night are clothed downstairs although later in the evening it tends to be less dressed.

    #11997
    DarkSlide
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    If you get to the club, let them know its your first time and they will show you around and let you know where everything is etc.

    Some things ot keep in mind:
    – Don’t go down with any expectations of getting any play, you may only get to watch. – Don’t touch anyone without asking
    – Don’t interfere with someone else’s play or try to join in unless asked to.
    – Upstairs is dress down

    There will be a very busy atmosphere, think of downstairs as very similar to a nightclub where you can relax and chat to other people.
    The upstairs is lots of different areas and rooms where you will see a lot of different people playing doing different scenes, everyone will be naked, in a towel, lingerie or sexy outfits.

    The main thibg that can’t be stated enough is No means No.

    Have a great night and relax B-)

    #11976
    DarkSlide
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    Looks like you are going to be in for a good night 😁

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 4 months ago by DarkSlide.
    #11975
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    You’re welcome :good: x

    #11791
    DarkSlide
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    Click on profile and then in the list of options there is one for settings its in there.

    #10500
    DarkSlide
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    Let the staff know when you arrive that you havent been befoee and they will show you around and let you know where everything is etc :yahoo:

    #9662
    DarkSlide
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    You’re welcome 😊

    #9659
    DarkSlide
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    I think everyone goes for their own reasons and interests and it allows them to explore what they are wanting from the club from voyeurism to swapping etc.

    I think superficially everyone will say they where nervous etc but struggle to really explain their feelings that they got out of it as everyone’s interests and pursuits are different.

    It’s like someone saying my night was awesome as I got covered in marmite and got spanked while singing the American national anthem. Totally awesome for them being in to that scene but people may view it as strange πŸ˜…

    The best thing you can do as you said is turn up early on the evening and get the tour etc the staff are very friendly as are the people.

    Also decide what you both want from the evening before you go and then make sure that you both stay on the same page through the evening and both stay happy and comfortable in what you are doing. There is no pressure to play other than people asking occasionally.

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 9 months ago by DarkSlide.
    #9593
    DarkSlide
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    Best place to start is with the clubs Q+A https://clubplay.net/club-play-questions/

    When you arrive if you let the staff know it is your first time, someone will show you round the club and go over all the information you will need for the night.

    The main three things to keep in mind is, there are no gaurentee of any play, always ask before getting involved in a scene that may be going on and always no means no πŸ™‚

    Pick the event you fancy the most and ask to be put on the guest list and have a great night :yahoo:

    #9451
    DarkSlide
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    I think most people look at the theme for the nights and pick the one they are most interested in attending B-)

    #9439
    DarkSlide
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    Best place to start is to check out the club q and a, it will get you a feel for the club rules and etiquette. Then pick a night and go along, tell the staff when you first arrive that you haven’t been before and they will show you round the club and answer any questions that you have. Don’t attend the club with any expectations, you may not get anything on the night and always remember to ask before trying to get involved in any scenes that are going on.

    #9429
    DarkSlide
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    Most nights are very busy, people go to watch and be part of the atmosphere, there is no pressure for you to swap etc
    There is alwyas plenty of people playing all around the venue playing and soaking up the atmosphere, you may get propositioned a lot by single guys but no always means no so dont be shy in saying to people you are only there to watch or put on shows. There are a lot of rooms from very private to full on public show rooms, best advice is to go and observe the play in the different areas and you will get a feel for them.

    #9286
    DarkSlide
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    We won’t be there tonight but there will be lots of other friendly people to talk to :yahoo:

    #9265
    DarkSlide
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    If you let the staff know its your first time when you arrive they will show you round and help you get a feel for the club, lots of friendly people there to talk too :good:

    • This reply was modified 3 years, 10 months ago by DarkSlide.
    #8781
    DarkSlide
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    Yeah more like the male stripper nights that they put on for masses of women, muscles cream an big dicks haha πŸ˜„

    #8779
    DarkSlide
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    Isn’t that similar to walking round the bar area at the club naked at the start of the night?

    #8477
    DarkSlide
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    Everyone started somewhere and You will have a great time at the club, its full of really friendly people and helpful staff if you need anything. They will show you round if you let them know its your first time and let you know anything that you need to know on arrival πŸ™‚ Read the club q&a as well to get a feel for the rules etc and you will enjoy your night πŸ˜€

    #8445
    DarkSlide
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    Check the event listings and see which evening you would like to attend and then ask to be put on the guest list, the club will let you know if there are spaces availabe for single guys left πŸ™‚

    #8405
    DarkSlide
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    You will all have a great time at the club, its full of really friendly people and helpful staff if you need anything. They will show you round if you let them know its your first time and let you know anything that you need to know on arrival πŸ™‚

    #8404
    DarkSlide
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    We would recommend reading the clubs questions and answers to get a feel of what happens at the club and the rules etc. When you go, go with no expectations of play, if it happens then it happens, if not then enjoy the shows that are going on as there is always something to watch there. Don’t pressure people, invade a scene, touch without invitation, always ask even in the gang bang room for exapmple its always good etiquette to ask to play.

    You can also post up asking if people would like to meet you there, which would normally be a social meet in the bar first and if everyone wants to play then all good, if not you have met new people to talk to, dont assume that because they said they will meet in the club that it will happen.

    Number one rule is No means No.

    Anyway hope that helps πŸ™‚

    #8403
    DarkSlide
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    Awesome, we will look forward to it :good: :good:

    #8296
    DarkSlide
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    Yes there has been cross over events, best person to ask is @twistedlillith as she did the parties πŸ˜€

    #8155
    DarkSlide
    Participant

    Sandcastle is good fun 😁

    #5860
    DarkSlide
    Participant

    From the clubs q&A:

    How to and why get a Green Club Play Ticked Club Play Verified profile –

    To have a Club Play verified green tick on your profile is a mark of trust. You can receive this badge of trust on your profile by doing one of the following –

    1. Have verification’s or be Site verified on other Swingers club sites – Please send your profile name and site name by messaging us on this site to our Club Play profile here.
    2. I / We Have visited Club Play in Blackpool already, if this is the case please email Club Play and once confirmed we will verify your Club Play Profile.
    3. Send Club Play a private message with a picture of yourself if single or both if a couple holding a piece of paper with your Club Play profile and date written underneath.
    4. We know you personally and can confirm your identity as authentic swinger/swingers.
    :good:

    #5723
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    Awesome, thank you B-)

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